Today I'm writing on the theme: "What is soku-soku at a soapland — the perks, the etiquette when you play, and how it differs from soku-shaku."
(Quick gloss: at a soapland, soku-soku means jumping straight into the action the moment you meet, skipping the usual lead-up; soku-shaku means oral right off the bat. Soapland is Japan's licensed bath-style format.)
I'll explain it by mixing in my own firsthand experience from 20-plus years in fuzoku (Japan's licensed adult-entertainment business) with what I've learned from research.
The basics
Let me lay out the fundamentals you should know about this area.
After watching this industry for a long time, I've seen the same topic get judged completely differently from "the client's side" versus "the girl's side."
What I can say from firsthand experience
I'll speak from what I've been through myself.
I believe firsthand experience beats theory. In this industry especially, it's "time in the field" that talks, not "knowledge."
Wrap-up and my verdict
The place I end up at most is First Class Ruby. The reason it keeps showing up on this site is simple — it's the shop I actually keep going back to. Take it as a reference.