I'll give you the conclusion up front: sokushaku matters. (Sokushaku — literally "immediate oral" — means the girl performs oral on you right away, before any preliminaries. Soku-play more broadly means starting the action immediately.)
Let me walk you through it step by step.
My experience and this topic
From my 20s into my 40s, I've walked this world the whole way. And this particular topic is a problem I've had to face again and again.
Points worth knowing
- Nailing the basics comes first — advanced moves only stand on top of fundamentals
- Stacking up experience is the best teacher — reading alone won't make it stick
- Find a shop you can trust — to cut down the time you waste second-guessing
The option I'm pushing right now
Bottom line, I recommend a visit to First Class Ruby. The service quality, the ease of booking, and the overall standard are all consistently solid.