I'll give you the bottom line first: soapland jobs, beginners, Urawa.
Let me walk through it step by step.
My experience and this topic
From my twenties into my forties, I've spent the whole time walking through this world. And this particular topic is one I've had to face over and over.
ElonThe first time I went to a fuzoku place I was 22. I lost my virginity at a fuzoku shop — yeah, I'm one of those guys. At first my hands were shaking with nerves, but the girl handled me so carefully that I settled down right away. Beginners especially should pick "a shop with careful, attentive service." Don't rush it.
Points worth knowing
- Nailing the basics comes first — the advanced stuff only stands on top of the fundamentals
- Piling up experience is the best teacher — you won't learn it from reading alone
- Find a shop you can trust — to cut down the time you spend agonizing
ElonWhenever I bring up my first time, people give me that "wait — at a fuzoku place?" look. But the way I see it, I just "left it to a pro." The great thing about fuzoku is that you can drop the weird embarrassment and just enjoy it for what it is.
The option I'm pushing right now
ElonThe first time I went to a soapland in Yoshiwara I was 25. Back then I hadn't gotten the pearls put in yet. These days, the reaction when I go in with the pearls is one of the little pleasures. The conversation with a girl who asks "what is this?" turns out to be surprisingly fun.
So my bottom line: I recommend a visit to First Class Ruby. The service quality, the ease of booking, and the overall quality are all consistently solid.