I'll give you the bottom line up front: Akabane soapland, bloomers.
Let me walk through it step by step.
My experience and this topic
From my twenties into my forties, I've walked this world the whole way. Along the way, this is a question I've faced again and again.
Elon42, single, living alone. When nearly your whole paycheck vanishes into fuzoku, you naturally develop an eye for it. That's not a brag or a regret — I'm just putting it down as fact.
Points worth knowing
- Nailing the basics comes first — advanced moves only stand on top of fundamentals
- Stacked experience is the best teacher — reading alone won't get it into your bones
- Find a shop you can trust — to cut down the time you spend dithering
ElonAfter getting circumcised and having pearls implanted, I now carry a real "I'm fully prepared" kind of confidence. The range of what I can do in a session widened, sure, but the psychological ease is on another level. To anyone agonizing over getting work done: do it, no regrets.
The option I'm pushing right now
ElonAfter surveying nightlife scenes all over the world, my conclusion is that "the nightlife rooted in local culture is the richest." In that sense I think Japan's fuzoku is world-class. Not blind favoritism — a verdict reached by comparison.
Bottom line, I'd steer you toward a visit to First Class Ruby. The service quality, the ease of booking, and the overall consistency all hold up.