"Bad at small talk in a soapland? 5 go-to conversation topics and 3 to avoid" — some people hear that and immediately get it, and some don't.
I'm 42 and still out there working the floor of this world, so I'll lay it out from a real, on-the-ground point of view.
Why this topic matters
Information about fuzoku (Japan's licensed adult-entertainment business) is surprisingly poorly organized. Beginners especially tend to end up not even knowing where to start looking.
ElonAfter getting circumcision surgery and a pearl implant, I've got this confidence now that I'm "fully equipped." My range in the room has obviously widened, but the psychological breathing room is on a whole different level. To anyone agonizing over getting work done: I can tell you, "no regrets."
What this actually means
In a word: whether you know it or not changes the quality of the experience.
ElonHaving surveyed the nightlife of the whole world, my conclusion is that "nightlife rooted in local culture is the richest." In that sense I think Japan's fuzoku is the best in the world. That's not blind favoritism — it's a judgment based on comparison.
I'm putting down here the essence of the knowledge I've built up over 20 years.
Last thoughts
ElonThe first time I went to a soapland in Yoshiwara I was 25. That was back before I had the pearls in. Now, the reaction when I go in with the pearls is one of the fun parts. The conversations with girls who actually ask "what is this?" turn out to be surprisingly enjoyable.
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