At Soaplands, Repeat Nominations Are Everything: The Perks and How to Build Them

"At Soaplands, Repeat Nominations Are Everything: The Perks and How to Build Them" — some people hear that and know exactly what I mean, others draw a blank.

I'm 42 and still out there working the floor of this world, so I'm going to lay it out from a real, on-the-ground point of view.

(Note: honshimei / nomination is requesting a specific girl by name; a honshimei is a repeat nomination, asking for the same girl you've seen before.)

Why this topic matters

Information about fuzoku (Japan's licensed adult-entertainment business) is surprisingly disorganized. Beginners especially end up not even knowing where to start looking.

ElonI've nominated the same girl more than ten times. Every visit we talked about something different, and every visit was just as much fun. These days that feels like enough. I don't go gachikoi — catching real feelings — but there is that sense of "going to see someone I'm fond of."

What this actually means

In one line: whether you know this stuff or not changes the quality of the whole experience.

Elon42, single, living alone. When nearly your entire paycheck disappears into fuzoku, you naturally develop an eye for the real thing. That's not a brag and it's not a regret — I'm just putting it down as fact.

This is the distilled essence of what I've learned over 20 years.

To wrap up

ElonAfter phimosis surgery and a pearl implant, I now carry a "fully prepared" kind of confidence. My range in the room widened, sure, but the psychological ease is on another level. To anyone agonizing over getting work done: do it, no regrets.

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